What I learned from washing dishes (right after use)!

Anyone that has known me for long can confirm that I am a serious procrastinator.  It is a part of me that God has been working on for some time, and has made lots of progress on since my lazed college days.  However, there are still bounds of room for improvement.  Planning ahead has never really been my forte’, especially since well, Jesus may come back before it needs to be done anyway.  Don’t get mad at me I know that is a wrong way of thinking (Paul dealt with it back it 2 Thessalonians chapter 3).  Most recently me and my wife have been diligent to do the dishes right after the meal instead of letting them pile up (like we formerly did).  Here are a few things I have learned.

1.        Dishes are easier to wash when you just get finished dirtying them. Once the gunk has set on and hardened it is a lot more difficult to get off and it takes a lot more work and frustration. 

2.       You don’t have an overload of dishes to do when you “get around” to doing them. 

3.       You never have to worry about people popping in on you and seeing your dirty dishes all piled up and gross.

4.       There is no weird smell coming from the kitchen that you have to go looking for to correct.

5.       You always have clean dishes to use.

6.       You can put your focus on more important things, rather than dwelling on how long it will take you to do the dishes and how much you don’t want to.

Ok I admit it; my reason for writing this blog is not really about washing your dishes.  It is about keeping your life clean!  It is about taking care of those bad choices/sins before they grow to bad habits.  It is about clearing out the old bad habits and not letting them creep back in.   How can I do that?  I know you are thinking what I have thought so often, “I have tried so many times and failed, so there is no use trying!”.  Now that is some destructive thinking and you need to get rid of it!  First off if you have a relationship with Jesus Christ you can do all things through His strength (Philippians 4:13)! If you don’t have a relationship with Jesus then we have identified your biggest problem and we should remedy that first.  

Second, God does not want you bound by your sins and bad habits. He wants you to be FREE from them!  Seek His help and strength, believe you can break these bonds, seek out friends who will be helpful and not judgmental, and start today! 

Oh and don’t forget that if you slip and fall, you are only a failure if you don’t get back up! So, go wash some dishes!

 –  Philippians 2:12-16, 1 John 1:9, Hebrews 12:1-

Don’t Judge a Book by Its Winter - Proverbs 3:5-6; Romans 8:28

5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Prov. 3:5-6 (NIV)

28 And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, tothose who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 (NASB)

When I am looking at a book that I might purchase I have a tendency to turn somewhere in the book and start reading.  If what I read interest me I classify it as a good book and I might purchase it. However, if I am not impressed by what I read I will put the book down and go to the next.  Surely along the way I have misjudged some books that would have been helpful to me simply because I only saw a small part of what the book was about.  I am willing to admit that this is probably not the best way to search for a book; it’s just my way. 

Many of us tend to take the same kind of philosophy when it comes to a ministry.  We want to come in one week or attend one event and judge the effectiveness of the ministry on that event.  Maybe as teachers or preachers we want to look at our last sermon or lesson and diagnose the health of our ministry based on its estimated effectiveness.  When we take a small sample of the life of a ministry or look at one event we are doing that ministry a serious injustice.  For us to understand the effectiveness of a ministry we must look at it over time.  We must not look at sheer numbers but more so we must look at the impact it has in the lives of those who are being ministered to. 

When looking at a ministry’s effectiveness we must also consider that ups and downs are a given.  There will be times when the numbers are down or the message is dry.  Maybe there will be a time of great struggle for the ministry to simply stay alive.  We must not consider this a reason to abandon the ministry or give way to being distraught and disheartened.  We must embrace God’s word and His wisdom and continue on when and where He leads us.  

Think about this every year we go through four seasons: Spring, summer, fall, and winter.  Spring brings us renewal and hope, summer brings us warmth and sunshine, fall brings us change, and winter brings us cold, darkness and ice.  Sometimes we wake up in a ministry and we find ourselves in the midst of a great winter.  The numbers are small, the desire seems low and we think of giving in or giving up.  Winters can be tough; after all not much grows in winter.  We must remind ourselves then, that even the deepest, darkest winter is followed by a beautiful spring of renewal.

If God has brought you to a ministry and you are obedient to Him, He will use you in a mighty way.  Keep pushing on past despair and cling to Him. Do your very best and rely on Him and He will give the increase.  One more thing… Never forget that He is always working, even when we cannot see it or perceive it!  

Are You Facing Jericho? – Joshua 5:13-15

13 And it came to pass, when Joshua was by Jericho, that he lifted his eyes and looked, and behold, a Man stood opposite him with His sword drawn in His hand. And Joshua went to Him and said to Him, "Are You for us or for our adversaries?" 14 So He said, "No, but as Commander of the army of the Lord I have now come." And Joshua fell on his face to the earth and worshiped, and said to Him, "What does my Lord say to His servant?" 15 Then the Commander of the Lord's army said to Joshua, "Take your sandal off your foot, for the place where you stand is holy." And Joshua did so. Joshua 5:13-15

Joshua found himself standing before the great wall of Jericho.  I imagine as he was sizing up the city he began to think, “how can we compass this great wall to destroy our enemy?”.  Maybe he was like me when faced with a large obstacle and he began to get nervous, fearing the task would prove too much. After all, that wall was big and strong and it sure wasn’t going anywhere!

As Joshua stood their in deep thought he noticed a man standing with a drawn sword.  He approached the man, perhaps with his hand on his own sword and asked, “are you on our side, or their side?”.  It was with the man’s reply that Joshua realized who he was talking to, “captain of the Lord of host” none other than the pre-incarnate Christ.  As God had come down and appeared before Moses with a burning bush and given him commands, now Joshua was being commissioned with a task by God Himself.  What great trembling and joy it must be to physically stand before the mighty God of the universe.

Now I want you to take note that the Lord did not say to Josh, “yeah, I’m on your side!”.  Instead with the Lord’s response Joshua realized that He did not come down to play on a side and be a team player; the Lord was the Captain and it was His side that Joshua must be on, not vice verse.  The Lord gave Joshua instructions to defeat Jericho; when the orders where carried out the Lord struck down the wall of Jericho to rubble and Joshua and the army of Israel defeated their enemy.

Have you come up against a large, unmovable wall in your life? Are you standing there thinking about how there is no way to overcome this obstacle?  Look to the Lord!  If you are on His side and obediently walking with Him and seeking His will then He will take down that wall.  Don’t get caught up with how God is going to do it, just be obedient to His direction.  Remember Joshua never touched the wall of Jericho; he didn’t strike it at its foundations nor strategically plan out its fall.  No, Joshua simply was obedient and allowed God to tear down the wall.  Great was the fall of that wall and great will be the fall of any obstacle that stands between you and the will of God!  Expect the miraculous! 

The Value of Good Council – Exodus 18:23-24

If you do this thing, and God so commands you, then you will be able to endure, and all this people will also go to their place in peace." So Moses heeded the voice of his father-in-law and did all that he had said. Exodus 18:23-24 (NKJV)

I have always been very independent; to a fault.  When I was younger and I was working on a school project I didn’t want any help. I wanted to do things all by myself and figure them out all alone. Otherwise I felt like I was cheating or else proving that I wasn’t good enough to do it on my own.  I have since learned (well to an extent) that it is unwise to try and conquer ever battle alone.  I praise God that in my own life, He has surrounded me by a plethora of mentors and guides to help me along the way.

If you are like me you don’t like to admit you need help or even correction.  It’s a pride issue.  For a long time I based my self worth in what I could do, in how much I could accomplish, and how I didn’t need anyone to help me.  Even after I became a Christian I took on the idea that I was God’s wingman; together we could accomplish any task.  It didn’t take long for me to realize the value behind good advice and council. 

Turns out that God’s, self proclaimed “wingman” is an A+, top notch, protos if you will: screw-up!  The boy who didn’t need any help found himself confused and afraid.  Thankfully to God I had a wonderful father who always took me to God’s word and said, “Let’s see what God has to say about it!”.  He would then discuss with me the issue at hand; I always felt better and more equipped to handle whatever was going on after a good “God Talk” with my dad.   Since I lost my dad, God has placed many other people in my life that have helped me to learn and grow in Him.  I too like Moses have been blessed with a Daddy-in-Law whom is full of Godly wisdom and love for me.  Thanks David!

Do you have mentors who are helping you through the day by day?  If not you need to find some now! Don’t worry the best ones are always willing to be there for you and advise you in Godly wisdom.  Just make sure that you remember this wisdome I picked up from a Biblical Leadership conference in college with Kevin Greer.

A Christian mentor is an older more mature friend, one who is dedicated to God and is growing in their own faith in Jesus Christ.  He or she is an encourager, as well as one who can be trusted.  A good mentor is one who is in love with Jesus and desires to help others to become more like Him.